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Good morning, NREB readers.

As always, we’re here to keep real estate professionals informed while cutting out the fluff. Let’s get right into it.

Your buyer has a steady job, a preapproval, and a reason to move. Yet every conversation about making an offer ends with some version of: “We’re just not comfortable with the payment.”

Meanwhile, the business headlines say the economy is growing and consumers are spending more.

It can sound like a confidence problem. But a healthy national growth number and a stretched household budget can exist at the same time.

Last week’s economic releases offer a useful explanation.

More spending does not always mean more buying

The Bureau of Economic Analysis reported on October 29 that the economy grew at a 3.4% annualized rate in the third quarter, adjusted for inflation. That measures growth in economic output, not an increase in the typical household’s paycheck.

A separate report showed what happened to income and spending in September:

  • Consumer spending rose 0.5% in dollar terms.

  • After inflation, spending increased less than 0.1%.

  • Inflation-adjusted disposable personal income fell 0.3%.

Those three figures are monthly changes. Disposable income means income after personal taxes.

In other words, consumers spent more dollars while the inflation-adjusted amount they consumed barely changed. Aggregate after-tax purchasing power declined.

That is a different story from households suddenly having more room for a mortgage.

These are national totals, not a diagnosis of any individual buyer. But they are a reason to ask what is happening inside the household before assuming hesitation reflects a lack of interest.

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The raise may already have a job

Consider a simple hypothetical household.

Monthly take-home pay rises by $200. Over the same period, its combined childcare, insurance, grocery, and transportation costs rise by $250.

The household is earning more. It has $50 less left over before making any change to its housing.

That example is not an estimate from the BEA report. It illustrates why “your income went up” may be a poor answer to “this payment feels too high.”

A buyer may also be protecting money for a repair, a medical expense, or an uneven month of earnings. You do not need their entire financial history to respect that constraint.

A preapproval tells you about borrowing eligibility. It does not tell you what the buyer is comfortable giving up to make the payment.

The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau makes this distinction in its homebuying guidance: lenders do not account for every household circumstance or savings priority when determining how much someone can borrow.

Ask which part of the budget feels tight

Before sending more listings at the top of the approved range, clarify what is stopping the buyer.

Is the concern the recurring monthly cost? The amount of cash left after closing? Or uncertainty about future income?

Those concerns call for different next steps.

A monthly-cost concern may mean revisiting the search range and checking property taxes, insurance, HOA charges, and likely upkeep alongside the mortgage payment.

A cash concern belongs in an updated closing-cost and savings discussion with the lender. A lower upfront requirement should still be evaluated against its effect on the ongoing payment.

An income concern may call for a more cautious timeline. Finding a way to qualify does not automatically resolve the reason someone is uncomfortable.

The agent’s contribution is to help identify the constraint and coordinate the right conversation. The buyer decides what fits their life.

Sellers need this distinction, too

A seller can read about economic growth and reasonably wonder why their listing is not getting stronger offers.

The explanation may involve local competition, the property’s condition, its price, or the budgets of the buyers shopping that segment. National consumer spending cannot tell you which one is responsible.

Avoid turning the economic report into either an excuse to leave everything unchanged or a reason to recommend an automatic price cut.

Bring the discussion back to the listing: what comparable alternatives cost, which properties are attracting offers, and what actual visitors have said. A growing economy does not make every asking price workable.

Read the number behind the headline

When a story says spending or income is rising, check three things: whether the figure accounts for inflation, which period it measures, and whether it describes the whole economy or the people you serve.

Those details can change the client conversation.

You can acknowledge that the economy is expanding while taking a buyer’s budget concerns seriously. You can explain the broader conditions to a seller without pretending they determine the value of a particular home.

The next time a buyer says the payment feels uncomfortable, start there. The national headline is context. Their household budget is what has to work.

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